Should I tell my gf to get breast implants?

My girlfriend Sarah is smart, funny, and beautiful.


She is tall, skinny, long legs and the face of an angel.





However, she is flat chested. We have been together for two years and she has mentioned breast implants before.


Recently, she has asked more often. I have said is she amazing the way she is and not to worry.


Is is OK to tell her she would be more beautiful with larger breasts?


Or just support her decision either way?


In the end I can't lose with her so it is probably best to let her decide.

Should I tell my gf to get breast implants?
I'll just answer this question for you:


Is is OK to tell her she would be more beautiful with larger breasts?


NOOOOO. Keep it to yourself. I feel much better that I made the decision on my own, without any encouragement from my bf. He did not say a word and just simply say he would support me either way, and he said not to get them for him.


Its her body, let her decide. Keep your comments to yourself
Reply:Let her decide what she feels she'd be happy doing and support her decision either way. If she decides to get the surgery, help her make sure she is doing it for her own self rather than to make anyone else happy.
Reply:support her either way.
Reply:WiiKristina:





I know your breasts are big. You should share them to her.





Answer to the question:





I'm pretty much sure she wants to get those breast implants for you.


If you want them bigger, then go for it. If you want her to have a longer life, I won't recommend them.





Well, it's your choice.
Reply:My fiancee at the time, who is my wife now, was considering the same thing my friend, and she bought herself new boobs. I would like to offer this based upon my experience, excluding the religious dynamic.





The caviot here, and I learned this the hard way, is to make the decision to be honest with yourself first about "why" you are with her. (Just follow me and it will make sense) Then you can be honest with her about how committed you are to her based upon the "why".





1. If she wants to think it over now, it may be because she wants to make you happy. Without getting weird about it, although it may not be that easy, try to see 'why' she is coming around to it. Maybe, in her head even though she may say she wants others to like her for 'who' she is, like the rest of us, she too may be ok with making concessions along the way. And this is fine to do, she just has to be able to live with her decision.





2. You probably know her better than anybody on earth, and, if you really mean it, then tell her it does not matter to you what she does and that she has your full support either way. If you would like her go up a bra size, or two, then wait until she asks, if she has not done so already, and ask her if she ever wondered herself the same thing. You have to make sure this is HER decision! If she says "yes", then so do you! If she says anything other than "yes", I would reccommend that you use modesty, but be honest.





Lastly, when my wife was considering this same thing, it was because of a self esteem issue. She had been very independent for many years by then. Combine the two, and i had to be careful. I was fully committed, meaning that, I was committing to marrying her, NOT HER BOOBS! In your case buddy, you have to decide whether you want to date her for her, or for...(you finish that). When she knows absolutely that you not only love her, but are committed to her no matter what, that has a way of letting dow her guard. Who knows, you may even grow exponentially closer to her through this!
Reply:Dont push her in either direction, and make sure she knows that you think she is gorgeous either way. However if shes looking for your honest opinion, tell her. Just make sure she doesnt feel like your pushing her
Reply:why make her fake?
Reply:no. who cares yu should love her for her and not what size boobs she has. its all her decision. you shouldnt have a say in what she does with her body
Reply:You should absolutely not tell her that she would be more beautiful with implants!!!! Wow! NO!





Tell her that you love her as she is and would lover her if she decided to get an enhancement too!





Go with the support her decision either way and you have nothing to lose...but maybe gain two new toys to play with!
Reply:Support her decision either way.